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La Femme Silhouette

 July 2004

 

Masthead 2004

Table of Contents

Lacey Leigh- by Laura Miller

Bit and Pieces- by Diane Frank

Crossdressing Cuttlefish- From University of Adelaide

Summer Meeting Reminders

Platinum Splendor- Movie Review by Elaine

A CD Eye for Art- Elaine

Superstar in a Housedress- Movie Review by Elaine

Upcoming Meetings

 

[Review]

Lacey Leigh Cleveland Visit

Laura Miller’s thoughts on the recent Cleveland visit by Lacey Leigh, author and crossdressing advocate. Laura is a former member and continuing friend of Alpha Omega.

The ACLU’s LGBT Working group and CLE sponsored the meeting. There were about 30 in attendance, 5-6 from the ACLU including the executive director, several from CLE, and several from Paradise Club. There were CDs, TSs, SOs, some "professionals" and some others I didn't meet or try to.

Lacey gave a very well organized presentation. Entertaining, motivational speaking, and presentations are her business. She claims to hope to be a leading advocate, nationally, for cross dresser's rights. Her topic was Cross-dressing 101, and closely followed her new book, " 7 Secrets of a Successful Cross dresser". I'm halfway through the book so far it also spends a great deal of time on her San Francisco vacation, all of which I read on her web site.

The presentation was very positive, stressing attitude is extremely important, and discussed the mental games we all play in our exercise of current counter culture activities. Lacey has some good points, dress is communication and the typical crossdresser dresses opposite to the image they want to present.

Lacey dwells quite a bit on the attempts to "pass" to gain acceptance, as actually being counter productive or self defeating, reinforcing the negative attitudes and guilt for most crossdressers, and she feels that the public at large reacts even more negatively when they learn they have been misled and deceived. Lacey feels that gender expression properly handled, proper dress, attitude, presentation of a guy in a dress is much easier tolerated although at this point not necessarily accepted. To quote her "Crossdressers who show respect for the feminine image they express will find a much more welcome reception everywhere." And "open crossdressing aims to gain social tolerance by minimizing additional offence as much as possible." g

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Bits & Pieces - Diane Frank

Pride 2004

This year I helped out again at the Chevrei Tikva booth at the Cleveland Pride festival in Voinovich Park, near the Rock & Roll Hall of fame. Pride seemed tamer this year, more of a family affair, except for the fellow in gothic drag being lead around on a leash by a placid woman in her early 60's. RuPaul did perform a set and there were a couple of things noteworthy about it. First, was despite Ru's international fame, TV show and acting career, she still accepted those $1 tips in true Drag Queen fashion. I guess it's hard to disappoint your core audience. The other note was how gracious she was about inviting other drag performers in the audience to come up and share the stage with her.

The CT Art Auction

Chevrei Tikva thanks Alpha Omega for the use of web space, and next year hopes to have better publicity material earlier. The auction was a success and did help raise operating funds for our growing temple. I had a great time helping to display the items (I've done this before at other auctions).

Other Web Site Business

I've finally found a way to direct inquiries to our site from unacceptable links or search queries to a disclaimer page. This saves us the bother and hassle of negotiating with the offending parties. On the other hand, I've also added disclaimers on some links that we need to keep, but have material on them not compatible with our policies. Again easier than asking other people to change what they're doing.

Hate Crimes

I find it difficult to identify with Gwen Araujo. I simply can't imagine being a promiscuous teenager exercising such poor judgment about having sex and relations with so many other people, never mind not being forthright about something that is of rightful concern to a sex partner. None-the-less that's not grounds for murder. What appalled me most was the defense raising the "gay panic" idea yet again. Somehow homicide is justified when someone finds out that they've had sex with a man, or had a man express attraction to them. The initial reports suggested that the defense had swayed the jury with those arguments. Later reports that polled the jury indicated that the jury didn't buy it. I can't find the version I saw, but here's one that provides a more nuanced look at the jury's thinking: www.philly.com/mld/mercurynews/news/local/states/california/the_valley/8990635.htm?1c

Although I doubt AO members will be running around engaged in the irresponsible and immature behavior that Gwen Araujo engaged in, I also think that our simple presence in a public setting, or even the mere knowledge that we exist can set some disturbed and violent people off. The bottom line is that unless the law protects people like Gwen, you and I aren't protected.

Diane

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CROSSDRESSING CUTTLEFISH TO SEX UP TOURISM

Tuesday, 6 July 2004

 

ADELAIDE, Australia - Adelaide researchers believe that sex in the water in South Australia’s upper Spencer Gulf could boost tourism. Sex among cuttlefish, that is.

And the South Australian public is being asked to spy on the cuttlefish – for the benefit of science.

"The breeding habits of the Giant Australian Cuttlefish are important to South Australia’s ecotourism industry, which is why we’re calling for the public’s help in locating large numbers of cuttlefish (groups of more than 10) over the next few months," says Dr Bronwyn Gillanders from the University of Adelaide’s School of Earth & Environmental Sciences.

Dr Gillanders and Dr Steve Donnellan (Evolutionary Biology Unit, SA Museum) are leading a team of researchers that aims to learn more about the population structure and movements of cuttlefish. This is critical to the sustainable management of the species and the design of a marine protected area in the upper Spencer Gulf.

Cuttlefish are a significant part of ecotourism at Whyalla because of their "crazy" mating behavior. They congregate in dense numbers and in shallow depths, providing a spectacle for divers and snorkelers.

Among their range of unusual sexual antics is "sneaky sex", where the physically smaller males, who can’t compete with larger males, "cross-dress". The smaller males change body color and trick the stronger males into thinking they’re females. When the strong males are not looking, the smaller males change color again and quickly mate with the females.

This can be exciting viewing for tourists, but the cephalopod species (including cuttlefish, squid and octopus) are an important resource for fishing, and their reputation as a delicacy in restaurants has led to the demise of many species.

"Preventing long-term harm to the Giant Australian Cuttlefish population is a major concern," Dr Gillanders says. "We aim to protect the marine ecology, while at the same time provide unique benefits to the fishing and ecotourism industries, and South Australia’s economy."

To better understand the Giant Australian Cuttlefish’s breeding locations and population, South Australian divers and fishermen – especially those outside the upper Spencer Gulf – are urged to keep a look out for mating cuttlefish and areas where they are found in large numbers.

"The public’s efforts will be vitally important in providing information about where cuttlefish are laying eggs, especially in areas outside the upper Spencer Gulf," Dr Gillanders says.

"Although cuttlefish’s sexual antics are a wonderful display to divers and snorkelers, the fact is that the cuttlefish will die soon after they’ve laid their eggs.

"This gives us a window of only two or three months from now – following on from their mating season – to gather as much information as we can from willing members of the community."

Anyone who has information about cuttlefish mating or grouping in South Australia can visit the following website and follow the links: www.biocity.edu.au

 

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Summer Meeting Reminders

 

July - No meeting

August - The annual cookout at Gloria and Kathleen’s home. (email Gloria or Kathleen for details and directions)

September - (tentative) Sister Bernadette Returns!

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Observation]

Platinum Splendor

Elaine comments on an aspect of the recent film release, "Connie and Carla."

Did you see Connie and Carla? It went through our town faster than Britney Spear’s first marriage, so I missed it. But it boasted a great cast, including the vivacious Nia Vardalos (pictured here in a scene from the movie.) The C&C web site continues on so you can glimpse what you missed, if you did.

Why bother? The story line: Women impersonating men impersonating women. I wager that most in our group are working on, at least, the second half of that equation. (Ok, not including the wives and SOs who pretty much have it down pat.)

And Nia herself wrote the story, so the transformations into glamorous cabaret performers must be true to an inner feminine style.

But wait… doesn’t that story line sound familiar? Just this past year, several AOer’s enjoyed a breakout performance by our own aesthetic phenom, Ms. Diane Frank, in the similarly themed Victor/Victoria. Forgive me, I digress.

So what caught my attention? Those splendid Donatella inspired locks, of course. I know there are some who would haughtily sniff that women past a certain age should not sport the sultry shoulder-length, sun-struck styles of their bikini-clad youth. (Just between us, Nia is *whisper* north of 40)

Well, I say: "Nia, you look Mah-velous!" Young and beautiful, hip and aware! What more could one ask from a hairdo?

Some might suggest that I missed the point, and Nia is really just spoofing the way a man would impersonate a woman, absent any inner feminine style.

I say, "only her hair-dresser knows for sure."

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Upcoming Meetings

July- We're taking a summer vacation 

August- Non-dressed meeting 

September-  We start up again

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Scotlandfuturebog 

Kahn and Richard Selesnick, at Amazon.com via the Alpha Omega website link – Elaine X

Their imagined world of Scotlandfuturebog offers "infinite promise that cannot possibly be described or communicated except by direct experience." Bogdwellers are sole inhabitants of a planet emptied by an apocalyptic event. Left to perform obscure ceremonies in a terrain that is as intriguing as it is uninviting, the bogdwellers exist in stark and beautiful landscapes. Eerie and elegant, the images of Scotlandfuturebog blur the lines between fact and fiction, and skew our sense of historical photographic truth as they explore the nexus between discovered and invented history.

X Read reviews and purchase Scotlandfuturebog, a monograph of the photographic work of Nicholas Kahn and Richard Selesnick, at Amazon.com via the Alpha Omega website link – Elaine X

 

Kahn and Richard Selesnick, at Amazon.com via the Alpha Omega website link – Elaine 

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Documentary]

Superstar in a Housedress

 

 

This new film by Craig Highberger is a backstage biography of one of Andy Warhol's drag divas, Jackie Curtis. Even though our orientations differ, I felt some of her thoughts, and other’s thoughts regarding her, struck a chord – Elaine.

Jackie on Jackie

I transformed myself into Jackie Curtis because I wasn’t getting enough attention.

Nobody took me seriously when I went to auditions. But when I walk in as a girl, I am immediately accepted on a creative level. And that’s true everywhere I go dressed as a girl.

I actually put on a woman’s dress, in one sense, to ward off evil spirits. Straight men found me threatening as a boy because they saw something they didn’t like that scared them. When I dress as a girl they can laugh at me if they want, but they don’t act with revulsion.

They can come right up and feel completely comfortable interacting with me as this hard hat did the other day on 57th street. That kind of thing never happened when I was a boy. I felt completely invisible as a boy – as if people were looking right through me, like a ghost.

Lily Tomlin on Jackie

"One thing that was delightful," says Lily Tomlin, "was that you never knew how Jackie was going to show up. He might be dressed as a woman or as a man. You never thought twice about it. You sort of envied someone who was able to casually cross that barrier back and forth."

"It was just original," Tomlin continues, "that exaggerated look. He made us see the absurdity of the culture."

Others on Jackie

Long before it became fashionable to say so, Jackie/John seems to have decided that gender is a social convention, and for him/her, it was something that could be reinvented every day. This remains a provocative idea, and perhaps the way that Jackie lived life represents his/her major artistic statement. If so, it would have to be judged as full of promise, but regrettably incomplete.

Jackie died on May 15, 1985. She was just 38 years old.

X Find out more about Jackie, and Highberger’s exceptional documentary at www.jackiecurtis.com X

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Publication Notice and Club Policies

 

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Alpha Omega is a non-profit social support group for heterosexual crossdressers and their wives or partners. Also, members from related organizations, helping professionals, and approved guests are welcome when cleared through Alpha Omega’s officers.

Meetings are the second Saturday evening of each month unless a special event is scheduled that takes the place of the regularly scheduled meeting. The location of the meeting or event is only released to members or others with the approval of an officer. Members and visitors must be 18 years of age or older. We will exchange newsletters with any other similar group. Send all correspondence to Alpha Omega, P.O. Box 2053, Sheffield Lake, OH 44054.

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